Most guys don’t react to being rejected very well, and when it happens more than once, they will be less and less likely to reach out to girls out of fear of being turned down again. For most people, it’s almost impossible to keep eye contact with someone they really like.
I work with this girl, she always takes time to ask about out if work things like if I live local and how old am I, and the other day I caught her grinning at me as I passed her. She most likely likes you, as Viktor said, most shy girls will say that its a joke or play it off, but since she gets mad if you are best friends with other girls, bites her lips , etc., you should straight ask her, however this might come with a mild risk as she wont know how to respond as she doesn’t want to ruin the friendship between both of you, you should start a casual conversation and try to transition little by little to the question. She’s not interested I’m afraid, but she’s probably afraid of rejecting you because she doesn’t want to hurt your feelings. There’s also like a 5% chance she’s just really busy, but I wouldn’t hold my breath for that.
She might also insinuate that the girl could be your crush or girlfriend, which is just an attempt to get you to tell her if you like the girl or not. My friend always takes my stuff like my phone and drum sticks. She always likes to mess with me.
Maybe she’s more of a casual girl, but if she wants to get your attention, she’ll put more effort into her outfit. She will always dress to impress. And that person that she wants to impress might be you. Does she get jealous when she sees you talking to other girls?
On the other hand, if she refuses a walk or ride home, that can be a sign that she’s not interested, especially if walking or driving her home is convenient. It is a known fact that women can be very jealous. Whenever she acts a bit jealous when you talk to other girls, then this is a pretty obvious sign of attraction. She probably likes you quite a bit. While she may not outright tell you that she is jealous, she may ask a lot of questions regarding the girl that she is jealous of.
Don’t assume she’s playing hard to get. She’s just not into you. And don’t think you can sway her by talking yourself up or negging her or doing whatever other dumb PUA technique you read about from some blog post written in 2009. It won’t work, and you’ll just come off as a desperate, creepy dude. Just as observing an anomaly in a tactical situation doesn’t automatically mean there’s a threat, an anomaly in the world of romantic social cues doesn’t automatically mean a woman wants to sleep with you, marry you, or even go on a date with you.
While she may not outright tell you that she is jealous, she may ask a lot of questions regarding the girl that she is jealous of.
She wants to let you in her life and be a part of it.
And I know exactly what I’m doing when a man I like asks me how my day went and I tell him I just bought a new pair of thigh-high stockings and some lingerie.
12. She can’t stay still when she’s around you
I text her to say I don’t want to be a bother but let her know she was beautiful today she waited about 10 mins replying that I’m not a bother with a 😉 however she has let everyone know she is there to work not make relationships. She also said she could use a hug from me last night but I live 1 hour away from work. My problem is I’m lesbian and she to me comes off as a straight woman so I’m a bit confused as to how I should take her gestures. She knows I’m a lesbian and she has never really replied with her preference. So should I take it as she is just friendly with me because she does not act like that with others or should I just let it ride out.
22. She Compliments You
This is the oldest trick in the book. Does she always go to you for help even if she could do something on her own? Or even if she could have asked someone else?
If a girl does not usually hug her other friends but hugs you a lot, then it can’t be denied that she likes you. Whether it’s a text, a phone call or a shared invitation, girls who are interested in you are going to initiate contact. If one of you is initiating contact more than the other one, that’s fine — especially early in the relationship, when a man’s social role tends to dictate that he make plans first. If, however, you find yourself making more of an effort to hang out for a prolonged period of time — with less emotional investment on her part — then that’s a sign that she might not be interested.
That is how you know she wants to get to know you better. When a girl clearly likes you, she will initiate more personal discussions.
To prevent this, this is how you can tell if a girl likes you. So I have been talking to this girl I’m 18 she is 22 I’m nearly 19. We hang out regularly.